The Tarot Teachings

Is there a solution IF there is a ''someone'' out there intentionally trying to ruin your relationship or your friendship out of jealousy or hatrate?

When something like that happened (touchwood), be calm, and try to jump out of the whole scenario and look at this whole thing from a third party's point of view before getting too angry or upset over it. Do not fall into the ''third party's'' trap, isn't it a waste if there's no wisdom being used to solve a situation like this?